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What happens to your brain when you write about a serial killer?

May 3, 2021 by Mona Andrei 8 Comments

Oh. Hi there, awesome readers!

So, this happened. Yesterday I spent most of the day working on a novel I’m writing entitled Family Secrets. The picture above is a mock-up cover that I created, and the sub-title is in the voice of one of the characters. In my mind, she’s narrating.

With me so far? Okay, good.

As you can guess from the title of this post, Family Secrets is about a serial killer. I’ve always had a deep fascination for the freaks that get pleasure from killing other people. Part of that fascination stems from the way that they terrify me. It’s as though I want to understand something that goes beyond the limits of my brain.

Are serial killers born with a defective gene? 

Are they created from circumstances? 

Is their sense of compassion tightly wrapped in an old carpet; stifled or perhaps even nonexistent? 

Can they be “fixed”? If yes, can they ever be fully trusted?

These are just a few of the questions that churn in my brain and get spread across the pages as I write the story. The context both piques my interest and paralyzes me.

Still with me?

Then this happened. I went from working on Family Secrets straight to dance class yesterday and I just wasn’t myself. It’s like my mind got stuck in a dark tunnel and I couldn’t find my own personality. My mood was dark and void of the passion that I usually feel for dance. It wasn’t until near the end of the practice that the music finally reached me, and I was able to let it move me, heart and soul. 

I know what you’re thinking. 

“WHY WOULD YOU PUT YOURSELF THROUGH THAT, MONA? 

WHY CAN’T YOU JUST STICK TO WRITING MEMOIR?”

The only way I can answer that is by saying that this story is screaming to be told. The plot … the characters … Everything about this story is living inside my brain and I have to fully submerge myself into it before I can let it go.

Make sense?

Meanwhile, I’m debating on whether or not I should share pieces of it here with y’all. The jury is still out.

In other news, here’s a piece I wrote for Yummy Mummy Club entitled, How to get your teenagers to stop swearing. It’s actually an excerpt of my latest book, SUPERWOMAN: A Funny and Reflective Look at Single Motherhood.

I need you to go read it so that you don’t think I’m a monster.

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  1. Carol Cassara says

    May 3, 2021 at 9:33 am

    Isn’t the subconscious amazing? If something cries out to be told, well, we must listen.

    Reply
    • Mona Andrei says

      May 3, 2021 at 5:29 pm

      Yes! And I am listening 🙂

      Reply
  2. Laurie Stone says

    May 3, 2021 at 11:43 am

    Sounds so interesting. You’re brave to take on that subject. For the very reason you described, I couldn’t immerse myself in a scary world. I’d have it “clinging” to me too much in the rest of my life. Come to think of it, I can’t watch anything scary, too much of a chicken. Although your story sounds fascinating!

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    • Mona Andrei says

      May 3, 2021 at 5:28 pm

      Oh I hear you, Laurie. I have trouble watching the news. But for some reason this story wants to be told.

      Reply
  3. Adela says

    May 3, 2021 at 1:24 pm

    Well, you know, every character is really you. After all, they come out of your head. That dark side of you reared her ugly head. So good the music put her at bay.

    Reply
    • Mona Andrei says

      May 3, 2021 at 5:27 pm

      I’m not sure if I agree that every character is “us”, the writer. Sometimes writing, creating plots and characters is simply a way to understand … see the world through different eyes … a different perspective.

      Reply
  4. Beth Havey says

    May 3, 2021 at 1:59 pm

    The novel I have been working on contains rape and kidnapping. None of that happened to me, but these are subjects that we need to discuss. Through literature, we awaken our readers to the necessity to WHAT IT MEANS TO BRING A CHILD INTO THE WORLD. You do that, you are responsible. I applaud you for working on this. And read my latest blog post. It’s a similar topic.

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    • Mona Andrei says

      May 3, 2021 at 5:25 pm

      Thank you so much, Beth. And yes, as writers we do have a responsibility. To inform … entertain … create awareness … I embrace all of it. Although it is difficult sometimes. I will definitely check out your post!

      Reply

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